If you are separated and dating, or divorced and dating, hack your dating life by finding a person to date that has the following traits:
Disinterested in Drama.
A person that does not thrive on causing problems or making problems worse. Their daily satisfaction does not stem from gossip but from personal accomplishment.
Respectful to your ex (even if you don’t like your ex).
A person who desires to live in peaceful surroundings and desires peaceful interactions. A person that can be kind even when they feel slighted. This is essential for when you have children with your ex and where it is necessary for your children’s emotional health to witness respect given to all in every aspect.
Respectful to your children
A person who is patient and willing to bend to your children’s needs. A person who understands your need for time with your children. Your children come first and this is a concept that is not a threat to your potential lover.
Remains emotionally detached from your divorce or post-divorce litigation.